What If You Struggle to Draw Near to God Because You Felt Let Down?
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What If You Struggle to Draw Near to God Because You Felt Let Down?

I loved God long before I understood why closeness felt hard.

What I thought was a faith issue turned out to be a survival skill. When being chosen felt conditional, I didn’t stop believing — I just learned how to hold parts of myself back.

This reflection explores how abandonment, disappointment, and unmet needs quietly shape the way we relate to God — and what begins to shift when we ask the gentler question: What did my heart need that it never received?

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That thing Didn’t Just Hurt You, it Froze you.
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That thing Didn’t Just Hurt You, it Froze you.

Trauma is not just an event — it is a teacher. It trains the nervous system to replay, to stay quiet, and to survive. This blog meets women living inside unspoken pain, naming the patterns trauma creates and offering a place to breathe, recognize, and begin again.

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Girl, “Stop Shrinking” Why You Keep Making Yourself Small?
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Girl, “Stop Shrinking” Why You Keep Making Yourself Small?

Shrink back if you want, but purpose won’t fit small. You keep dimming what God called radiant — and it’s time to stop apologizing for the light He gave you. This one’s for every woman who’s ever felt too much, too loud, or not enough. Sis, God didn’t make you to hide — He made you to live unmuted

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3 Clear Signs God Is Pushing You Forward (But You're Ignoring It)
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3 Clear Signs God Is Pushing You Forward (But You're Ignoring It)

A letter to the woman who’s been feeling the shift, but keeps second-guessing it. This bold Christian blog is for the quiet wrestle in your spirit, the nudge you’ve been downplaying, and the open door you’re afraid to walk through. You’ve been praying for clarity — but deep down, you already know what God said. This is your confirmation. It’s time to move forward — not because it’s easy, but because obedience is your breakthrough.

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